Friday, April 19, 2013

Aging with Humor and Love

It has been a while since I've shared my experiences with my favorite senior couple. 

The funk I have been in has caused me to neglect them a bit, which I hate.  That is pure selfishness on my part too.  I hate it because I always feel better after spending time with them.  Not because of anything I do for them, but for what they do for me.

In case you have missed my posts before, I love this couple dearly.  It is the closest thing I have ever experienced that could ever be comparable to having a healthy relationship with family and I am incredibly thankful for it.

Tonight we were privileged to celebrate "Mama's" birthday with the family.  We celebrated her husband's birthday a couple months ago, which was equally as wonderful.

As we sat around the table listening to the stories of travels, teaching and life, I found myself in the middle of a big belly laugh...only one of the first in months. 

This reminded me of one of the very first things I learned from this couple and had obviously forgotten the past few months.  With love, there is nothing that is insurmountable and humor keeps life in a healthy balance. 

It was refreshing for me to be among a family who shares so much love for one another, reminding me what a healthy family looks like. 

Probably the bigger thing I was reminded of was the love I have for this couple and the love they offer in return.  I have never, EVER, been treated like "just one of the family" in the way this couple treats me.  I never thought I would ever feel that. 

Anyone who knows me would tell you that I'm not much of a hugger.  However, a couple sweet hugs from such a wonderful woman tonight did so much to soothe my aching heart. 

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